Reasons why life really sucks sometimes...

When you decide to oppose the flow, the first people you're forced to fight against are the people whom you love the most and the ones who love you the most and your supposed benefactors. 'Coz we live in a society which has such a desperate (yet unfounded) need to protect its own back, that, its members, including your supposed well-wishers, are concerned less about you being the best you can be than about you being so worse or so different from the rest that fingers get pointed at them in judgement.

That is for the 0.00001% of the society that really cares about you. The rest 99.99999% doesn't really give a shit one way or the other.